Online Stalking: Cyber Safe Advice
Online stalking (or cyberstalking) is harassment where technology is used persistently to intrude upon others in the knowledge that contact is unwelcome.
A small guide on how to keep young people safe when online.
How might young people be at risk, as they spend more time online?
There are many risks that young people are exposed to when they spend more time online, these being:
Addiction (Gaming, Monitory, Screen time)
Increased risk of grooming
Cyber Bullying and Stalking
WhatsApp Groups
Metaverse, AI (Artificial Intelligence)
What things can parents look out for/be aware of?
There are many things that parents/carers can look out for, when it comes to grooming it is around knowing the physical, emotional, and verbal changes in a young person. Those drastic changes in emotions, speech can be vital to knowing whether a young person is being groomed online. As well as this, when it comes to the physical changes its around items of clothing, gifts they are receiving etc. It can be so important in the initial stages to notice those signs.
When it comes to WhatsApp it is about making sure parents and carers know what groups the young person that they care for it apart of and generally if they are spending a significant amount of time on one application with an increased amount of messaging.
Especially with gaming it is being aware of the concerns, voice changing applications are easily accessible, these enable individuals to manipulate their voice to sound completely different to what it is, they are very convincing and are used to manipulate someone into thinking they are someone completely different to who they say they are.
Privacy online, ensuring that the young person that you care for has the highest possible restrictions on their social media accounts for instance an Instagram account being private rather than public, this adds an extra layer of security as users who know the Instagram handle cannot gain access to the photos that individual has uploaded, who they follow/following list, photos they have been tagged in, stories they have uploaded as well as messaging that account involving video and phone calls.
What can young people look out for?
Young people themselves can look out for a variety of concerns when online to be and feel safe. This includes:
If anyone asks you to do or send something that makes you feel uncomfortable or anxious then do not give into peer pressure, have a conversation with a trusted adult who can help and support going forward.
Any unsolicited messages on any social media accounts.
Cyber bullying and hate speech on social media platforms, this is to be reported primarily to the social media account itself.
The risk to future employment, not posting anything online that could be an issue later down the line, employers, universities, colleges, and internships will look at a prospective student's social media account to determine whether they are the right fit for the organisation. Social media plays a significant role today so ensuring this does not affect you when applying for higher education or a job is especially important.